What makes for a good life and for happiness.
No- Not Fame or Money but solid relationships with others, friends, family and YES with you ex-spouse as well.
Conflict is toxic and negatively impacts on our health, physical and psychological.
Living in the midst of conflict is bad for our health (go to 7:38 minutes in Video).
The sooner you learn to dial down the conflict with your ex-spouse and focus on building and maintaining good relationships the bette off your life will be.
See this YouTube video from the Director of a long standing Harvard study of people- just like you.